Today, I learned of the tragic news that one of my very good Vietnamese friends had been killed in an accident on the Mekong. Quan was a wonderful spirit, who was always providing a giving hand to anyone and everyone who needed help in his hometown of Ho Chi Minh. I remember fondly our drinks at Yoko, the card readings, the milkshakes, cookies, advice on where to buy the best shoes and get one’s nails done… Quan was always there – as advisor, tour guide and friend. He will be terribly missed!
This news has brought great sadness. But it is also a reminder that life is finite. And with that, a message of giving: to oneself.
Quan’s death has provided me with a reminder to live life with passion, and fill it with positive action. To ensure one’s values are upheld, life’s goals are attained, and that, in all our actions, we are passionate and committed to our happiness. During these times of job losses, recession and uncertainty, there also comes an opportunity to not lose sight of two things that should always be constant.
Firstly – change. During these times, we need to give ourselves the opportunity to look at ourselves and determine how we can change to get through these times. Remember what a pool of stagnant water looks like? If you are starting to look a little green around the edges with fear of moving with the current times, I would encourage you to take some time out. What do you need to reconsider? How can you mend some bridges? How can you do things a little differently to ensure you have a work/life balance? Change is one of the few constants in our lives that is certain, and needed.
We also need to consider our own values – who we are, what we want from life. If you are aren’t heading in the right direction, perhaps now is a time to change tack and give yourself the chance to get yourself out of rough waters. Reevaluate what is important to you and ensure that these values are aligned with your goals.
The last few months have been a little difficult on a personal level. I lost a lot of money with a new business after September 11 happened. The start of give.com.au coincided with an international economic crisis that will not stabilise any time in the near future. I have had a little fear and trepidation about times ahead and financial losses. However, now is the time for me to look at what changes I can instigate to ride these rough seas, and give to those who desperately need support. Now is the time for me to dig deep and follow my passion of creating change. So lots of exciting things are being planned for give.com.au, and I invite you all to be a part of this change, to help in our vision of making a difference.
A monthly newsletter will soon be launched, and I invite you to subscribe through the give.com.au homepage. I would encourage you to pass on the link to your friends and family and encourage them to sign up. As I look at ways at expanding our approach to giving, I invite you to share stories of giving in your local community and please let me know of any projects you feel we could support down the track. I thank you for being a part of this vision of change.
Seeing the sense of community that arose from Black Saturday, I believe that in all of us, there is an innate desire to give. But never forget yourself.
Live passionately!
Tina
We will miss you Quan. Thank you for the inspiration! x
